Four years without Daniel, of living every day with a broken heart, of sorrow, of missing your child more than words can say, of not telling anyone how you really feel because you know it will upset them, so you bury it deep inside yourself where it silently destroys you.
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All the best to you, Alison. Your beautiful boy is in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Alison. My thoughts are with you. Some days the pain is manageable and better than others, but the pain of losing a loved one will be with you forever.... stay in touch.
Ek het ongelukkig nie vir Daniel persoonlik geken nie maar dit voel of ek hom ken en hy moes 'n pragtige seuntjie gewees het en dis die herinneringe wat jou aan die gang hou. Ek dink so baie aan jou Alison en waar deur jy moet gaan. Jy moet nooit sleg voel en ophou oor om hom te praat en hoe jy voel nie want dis hoe jy 'n sterker mens gaan word en dis dit wat jou herinneringe van hom lewendig gaan hou.Baie sterkte. Drukkie vir jou.
Time leaves so many scars we have to keep a positive frame of mind move forward. As i matter of fact, I lost my lovely dad on the same day and year.....but he still alive through our foundation works " Chidambara Sastry Foundation "
Don't bury it. You shouldn't have to. If people can't handle it they aren't worth having around. He is your son and as much part of you today as he was when he was here. You are doing so well and should be really proud of yourself. XXX
its a lonely silent journey that we share with many. I've lost most "normal friends" and now only have bereaved parent friends. live to you from Oz xxx.
“If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together.. there is something you must always remember, you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think, but the most important thing is, even if we're apart... I'll always be with you.” Christopher Robin to Pooh
Our Story
Daniel. He died on 6 January 2009, two months before his 4th birthday. We love him forever and we will keep him in our hearts and in our souls, until we meet again.
Henry and Alecia. Daniel's brother and sister. They adored their baby brother and loved him most of all. Losing Daniel wounded their souls and broke their hearts.
I am Alison, their mom. I dedicate this blog to my children - as a token of my love, to remember our Piki and to share the story of our journey after losing him. Namaste.
The images below are all visual reflections of Daniel's unique spirit and energy. He is a crystal child, in touch with nature and with his own spirit.
Forever In Our Hearts
"We understand each other other in a way we wish we didn't" Each of the links below belongs to a parent who has also lost a child. All of them are special to me, in some specific way.
Daniel absolutely loved to play on and was completely attached to his computer. These were his most favourite online games - tried, tested and approved.
Daniel was visiting his father when he lost his life. The swimming pool at their house is open, without a fence, safety net or alarm and Daniel was left unsupervised with free access to the water. His father wasn't home when one of the other children discovered that Daniel was floating in the pool. I will never know if Daniel died in the water, while he waited for his dad to get back to the house or maybe in the car on the way to the hospital where he was declared dead on arrival. The cause of his death was confirmed as drowning.
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All the best to you, Alison. Your beautiful boy is in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Alison. I feel so so sad with you. Always thinking of you.
Baie liefde en sterkte Alison
Dink aan jou...sterkte
keep strong my friend, you and Daniel will always be in my thoughts x
Hi Alison. My thoughts are with you. Some days the pain is manageable and better than others, but the pain of losing a loved one will be with you forever.... stay in touch.
sending you love, light and strength, Alison xx
Hi Alison, ek dink so baie aan jou. Sterkte.
Ek het ongelukkig nie vir Daniel persoonlik geken nie maar dit voel of ek hom ken en hy moes 'n pragtige seuntjie gewees het en dis die herinneringe wat jou aan die gang hou. Ek dink so baie aan jou Alison en waar deur jy moet gaan. Jy moet nooit sleg voel en ophou oor om hom te praat en hoe jy voel nie want dis hoe jy 'n sterker mens gaan word en dis dit wat jou herinneringe van hom lewendig gaan hou.Baie sterkte. Drukkie vir jou.
thinking of you in this time. Remember GOD can repair broken hearts!!!!
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Love, hugs, warmth, and all the comfort in the world, Alison. x
Dink aan jou Alison.
Ai Ali sterkte hoor, dink aan jou
Time leaves so many scars we have to keep a positive frame of mind move forward. As i matter of fact, I lost my lovely dad on the same day and year.....but he still alive through our foundation works " Chidambara Sastry Foundation "
big big hug to you!
hope you find a way to express it...xoxoxo
xxxx
Don't bury it. You shouldn't have to. If people can't handle it they aren't worth having around. He is your son and as much part of you today as he was when he was here. You are doing so well and should be really proud of yourself. XXX
<3 sending love and light
Be strong and remember all the good times.
xxxxxx
its a lonely silent journey that we share with many. I've lost most "normal friends" and now only have bereaved parent friends. live to you from Oz xxx.
Big hug my friend xxxx
Daniel's artwork is in my room. I think of him all the time. I think of you, too.
I know - there is never a day, a night, a single moment when you are not missing him, longing for him.
There are no words for the agony of life without your child. Daniel should be here. He should be here. He should be here.
Oh, if only he were.
With love and tears,
Cathy in Missouri
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